Wednesday, 20 May 2015

THE HOPE OF AN ANT: Don't let the sparkle and smooth taste of a wine deceive you unless you die slowly. A MUST READ FOR EVERYONE

The society is a channel either to expose you to destruction or to be visionary minded. We all love good things, luxury things is our aim, sweet life is all men goals and pleasure is what we claim to be our birth right. But I see aim as weapon of death, goals as a dead cops and birth right as wounded spirit. You are not right or having a life, if you make all these a ladder to your destiny. A child that is born today want to be known in the society, ride a good car, flow with money around him and have a swelling life which is called a fake life. if you are not born rich, you may not be willed with silver spoon! you can only get it with your hard work, focus and determination. 

Guys fraud in other to make names, show off, flirt with girls, drink and to have fun but their end is bitter than the beginning. I met three guys couple of years ago, they started their life by eating from their hard work after their secondary school. They were from a poor home trying to have an edge in life and to have brighter future. All turn to be lesson of life because what doesn't break you will only make you stronger; that is if you can learn from his feet. Later they were introduced by a long distance friend, to a job called yahoo yahoo. They started fervently on the job and worked harder in other to have good pasture and happy life. 

The first work they did gave them 400,000 Naira. They were glad and became the happiest person in the world. Life was sweet to them because they earn what their parent have never gathered. Many jobs paid for them and they were flowing in money just like fish in the water. Cars and big life became their strength, women were at their disposal for use, and to them this is just the beginning and taste of a sweet life. They have money and they commanded respect wherever they found themselves, but they lost something tangible in their life which Is where they came from. This reminds me of an adage that says "a river that forget his fountain will dry up". They were rich and they don't remember home any more. They also abandoned the driver of their lives to this world and forgot that the deed of one will one day catch up with him or her just like a thief in the night. They stretched their wings and believe that the end will never come, meanwhile, this was just the beginning.

The three guys were in money for three years without any plan for their future and unborn children. One Wednesday morning, police busted them and that day marked the beginning of their downfall. There was no paying of money and they lost and sold all they have worked for within a year. There is a saying that says "a stone throw to a palm tree is what the palm tree will return", their end became worse than their beginning. WHERE ARE YOU? WHERE ARE YOU COMING FROM? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN? Is a question one should be asking every day in order to have good future. To the guys, it is not all things that glitters are gold! Your friend may arrive today, but you are still working hard with focus and determination. Don't worry, you will fulfil your destiny because opportunities are waiting for you. And to you beautiful and expensive ladies out there don't compared yourself with someone else, you are from a different home and from a different background. Your destiny and your future are different, so life must teach you differently. Many ladies sowed themselves to prostitution because they want to meet up with their fast daily means. Many weren't born from rich home but want to be like her, that hot lady. Your beauty is like a flower, it will fade away and your body like a tree, it will withered. 
BE YOURSELF AND AIM TO BE SPECIAL IN LIFE.

Friday, 1 May 2015

Who is your spouse and prove that you truly know your spouse

Too many spouse are clueless about themselves; do you know your spouse?  Prove it!


Thousands of question people ask about who their spouse is, but millions of people are invalid with the right answer.  You cant be at peace with your love if you don’t know who your lover is, and you are heading nowhere if you don’t have a place you are going to.  I say to you now that "you can’t achieve a dream without vision and you cant complete a goal without dream". 
 It never ceases to amaze me how much people talk about their relationships, think about them,  read about them,  ask about them even get in them  without a clue of how to move forward.
Many will say to their spouse I love you. But the question is what do you love about him or her?  first thing that drives relationship is to know who your spouse is.
Answer these questions within yourself to confirm if you actually know your spouse or you are just deceiving yourself. 
What do know about your spouse? 
What is your spouse favorite color? 
What makes him or her happy? 
What is your spouse favourite song?
What is your spouse vision, dream and aspirations?
What can you do to have your spouse attention?
What is your spouse favorite food? 
What does your spouse do at leisure? 
Can he or she make you happy?
What does your spouse hate? 
You cant like whom you dont know, and you can't love who you don't like. If a moment with him or her is more than what you have had in a long time, then you need to know who your spouse is.  Try to know him or her more than the physical aspect.
You may have been on this road before and still don’t know what you are doing, you can try again to be the best to your spouse. He or she may not hate you but don’t know you. Get to know your spouse because it is a very important key in a relationship.
Who is your spouse?